How to find and become a great mentor

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By Skills for Health | 11 December 2024

Mentorship is a professional relationship in which an experienced individual, the mentor, provides guidance, knowledge, and support to another person, the mentee, to foster their growth and development. In healthcare, mentorship is especially important due to the complexities of the sector ranging from diverse patient needs and advanced technology to interdisciplinary teamwork and resource constraints, where every decision can impact patient outcomes significantly. Knowing how to navigate these areas can be overwhelming, especially if an individual is new in their field of work, which is why the use and application of good mentoring is vital.  

From a training perspective, mentorship is useful because it allows healthcare professionals to refine their skills, expand their knowledge, and gain insights from experienced colleagues who can act as career advisors and role models. It’s also useful for the mentors themselves as sharing knowledge develops leadership skills and reinforces their expertise. This relationship helps promote teamwork and unity, enhancing overall organisational performance and morale. 

From an emotional perspective, mentorship also offers support, reducing feelings of isolation and stress. Mentees gain confidence, while mentors often find renewed purpose in their roles, improving workplace satisfaction and retention. By individuals benefiting in skills, and wellbeing through mentorship, both parties can perform their tasks more efficiently, which will ultimately lead to better patient outcomes.  

This article will explore how to find a mentor in healthcare as well as how to become a great mentor yourself.  

Finding a mentor in healthcare

Finding the right mentor is essential to unlocking the full potential of a mentoring relationship. Because mentorship is deeply relational, it’s important to find someone that you are compatible with in order to get the most out of the relationship.  By having a strong mentor-mentee connection, areas of trust, mutual respect, and open communication can be developed more easily, allowing both parties to benefit.  On the other hand, a poor match can create friction, lead to misunderstandings, and diminish confidence, ultimately hindering professional growth and could even potentially affect overall well-being.  

Below are some steps to identify and approach a mentor.

Identify your goals

Clearly define what you hope to achieve through mentorship – whether it’s mastering a specific skill, advancing in your career, or gaining insight into work-life balance. By identifying your goals, you provide both yourself and your potential mentor with a clear direction for what you want to get out of the relationship. This clarity helps ensure that the mentorship is focussed and purposeful, leading to more effective guidance and progress. It also allows you to measure success along the way and ensures that both you and your mentor are aligned in terms of expectations and objectives. 

Seek mentors who inspire you

Look for individuals whose expertise, work ethic, or leadership style you admire. This could be a senior colleague, supervisor, or even a peer with specific skills you want to learn. Seeking mentors who inspire you is important because it creates a foundation of motivation and respect. When you are genuinely inspired by someone, you’re more likely to stay engaged, absorb their guidance, and be driven to apply their advice in your own practice.  

Harness professional networks

Use networking events, conferences, and online platforms like LinkedIn or professional forums to connect with potential mentors. Take advantage of formal mentoring programmes that organisations, such as the NHS, provide.  

Leveraging professional networks is important because it expands your reach, opening doors to a wider pool of mentors with diverse experiences and expertise. By engaging in these networks, you increase your chances of finding a mentor whose insights align with your specific goals. However, at the same time, don’t feel like you must go with some with someone further afield. If you have a great mentor on your back doorstep, utilise them!  

Start with informal conversations

Build a relationship by starting with informal chats. Ask for advice, share your goals, and express genuine interest in their work before formally requesting mentorship. This is important because it helps establish a natural, low-pressure rapport, allowing both you and the potential mentor to assess if the relationship is a good fit before committing to a more formal mentorship arrangement. Remember, mentorship is deeply relational so you make to make sure you commit to someone that will be a good fit for you where you can get the most from it. 

Be clear and respectful

When approaching a potential mentor, clearly explain why you’re seeking their guidance and what you hope to learn. Respect their time and be open to their terms for the relationship. This is important because it sets clear expectations from the outset, ensuring both you and your mentor are aligned in terms of goals and availability. Being transparent about your needs and respectful of their time fosters trust and professionalism, making it more likely that the mentor will be willing to invest in the relationship.  

By applying these tips, hopefully you’ll be able to acquire a great mentor that suits your needs. However, do note that even if you agree to a mentorship, it’s not binding. If, with time, you realise that things aren’t progressing in a way you’d like, your vision or goals change, or there is someone who would you operate with in a more effective way, don’t be afraid to seek an alternative.  

Becoming a great mentor in healthcare

If you’re considering becoming a mentor, you can shape the careers of others while growing as a leader. However, as mentioned previously, do remember that mentorship is relational and that you won’t be able to mentor everyone with the same success. Take account of this when assessing potential mentees. Not in just a ‘can I offer the best expertise and support?’, but ‘will this person receive the best expertise and support available to them?’ Mentees might not always have the confidence or comfortability to turn down a particular mentor, so be extra diligent when assessing whether you are a good fit.  

Alongside assessing this compatibility of a potential mentee, you can excel in this rewarding role by following these steps. 

Reflect on your strengths

Identify your areas of expertise and the insights you can offer. Think about the challenges you’ve overcome and how those lessons might help others. This is important because it allows you to approach mentorship with confidence, knowing that you have valuable experiences to share. Reflecting on your strengths also helps you identify the specific areas where you can make the most impact, whether that’s in clinical knowledge, leadership skills, or navigating professional challenges.  

Create a supportive environment

Mentorship is built on trust and open communication. Be approachable, patient, and empathetic to your mentee’s needs and concerns. This is important because a supportive environment is crucial in creating a safe space for learning and growth. When mentees feel comfortable and understood, they’re more likely to open up about their challenges, ask questions, and take constructive feedback.  

Encourage independence

Great mentors guide without micromanaging. Offer advice and share experiences but encourage your mentee to develop their own solutions and confidence. This is important because it helps the mentee build skills and self-reliance. After all, the aim is for a mentee to one day operate independently, advance in their career, and one day potentially act as a mentor themselves.!  This approach will help prepare them to handle challenges on their own, which is especially crucial in the fast-paced and demanding environment of healthcare. 

Provide constructive feedback

By offering regular feedback, mentees can understand their own strengths and identify areas where they can grow, guiding their development effectively. Make sure though that this feedback is specific, actionable, and balanced with praise as this gives the mentee clear steps for improvement as well as making them feel valued and supported. This will help ensure they remain engaged in their learning.  

Commit to lifelong learning

Healthcare is constantly evolving, with new technologies, practices and research emerging regularly. It’s therefore important to stay up to date with the latest developments in healthcare and mentoring techniques. This will allow you to offer the most current and relevant guidance to your mentee, ensuring they’re well-prepared for the challenges they’ll face. Furthermore, demonstrating a commitment to lifelong learning sets an example for your mentee, inspiring them to continue their own professional development.  Mentorship is a mutually beneficial relationship that enhances skills, well-being, and a sense of purpose for both the mentor and mentee. By embracing some of the strategies noted, you can maximise your mentorship experience, helping you navigate the complexities of healthcare while growing both personally and professionally.

Mentorship is a mutually beneficial relationship that enhances skills, well-being, and a sense of purpose for both the mentor and mentee. By embracing some of the strategies noted, you can maximise your mentorship experience, helping you navigate the complexities of healthcare while growing both personally and professionally.


Interested to learn more? 

Mentorship is vital in healthcare for personal and professional growth, and the Your Healthcare Career course can enhance this process. It helps mentees identify career goals and equips mentors with tools to guide effectively, aligning with professional development and preparing for future challenges.

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